This is the holiday season and it is time for gifts, or is it? My children get plenty of gifts round the year from us and grandparents, so there is no real reason to get them more presents. What they really need from me is time. The gift of time is something that a busy working parent like me would really want to give them. They grow up too quickly!
Throughout the year, I am busy with work. As a teacher, I start work by 7 plus in the morning, and I typically leave the school 11 hours later. By the time I reach home, I have only two hours left with my children. I spend it on dinner, and I do not get to interact with them much as I am usually too tired.
During weekends, the situation is only marginally better. I spend my time taking them to enrichment lessons and visiting grandparents, and that is about it. Going to musicals, zoo, parks and playgrounds do not happen as much as I would like. Whenever my children ask me to do certain activities with them, I keep giving them excuses why I could not carry them out. I feel like a rotten part time mother.
The good news is, the school holidays are finally here. My goal is to make every day of December count.
Here are ten free activities I will take my children to do during this holiday season.
1. My five-year-old, El, likes to bake. Unfortunately I had only done that once with him on New Yearโs Day. I will bake at least once with him this holiday.
2. El has an encyclopaedic knowledge of animals, so he wants to go to the zoo and the bird park. I have booked free corporate passes to the Jurong bird park, so we will be going as a family. We have also booked free zoo tickets, so we are going to the zoo too!
3. We plan to catch free performances of cartoon characters at shopping malls. He asked to watch Dora the explorer, and we had just caught it a few days ago. There are other characters, such as Fireman Sam, which we will be watching.
4. He wants to build sand castles, so we will go to the beach. East Coast Park is a place that many families like to go to. A few other parks with sand pits and playgrounds would be good too.
5. It is free for children to take public transport, but I do need to sign up for their free passes. Gar loves spotting trains and buses. I think it is time to go on rides.
6. El had been asking to go overseas, but my husband is overwhelmed by that idea. One way is to go to the parks in the north where we can see Malaysia. There are playgrounds there where they could play, and Sembawang Park is full of historical significance. A naval base was built there by the British to protect Singapore, but it was not very effective during WWII.
7. Some museums are also free for locals. The National History Museum is undergoing renovations for some of the exhibits, so I think I will take them to the Singapore Art Museum instead. El loves to draw, so it would be a good opportunity to see works by local and other Asian artists.
8. Living in the concrete jungle can make one stressed. There are a few farms in Kranji and I think Bollywood Veggies is free for children. El prides himself as a nature explorer, so it would be a good chance for him to see plants.
9. There are free music performances at the Esplanade. It would be good to expose the children to music.
10. Christmas is a time where the shopping malls decorate the buildings with special lighting. Orchard Road will be a great place to drive through.
With many free activities lined up, I hope to enjoy the holidays with my children without all the buy-buy-buy! It is really a nightmare buying Christmas presents for any parties we might be invited to!
This post is part of a blog hop from Hoagies’ Gifted.
Natalie PlanetSmartyPants
How interesting to read this post. While you live in a different country, your working Mom problems are very similar to mine, and your “gift of time” ideas ring very true to me!
Sarah
Thanks Natalie! I guess working moms face similar problems in many countries. I really feel bad that I am spending more time with other children instead of my own.
I’ve just taken my kids to the Bird Park today! Looking forward to carrying out the other activities.
Caitie
I loved reading about your plans! I love how you listed local resources for affordable fun- that’s what a busy mom always needs! Happy Holidays!
Sarah
Now to make sure I carry out my plans! ๐ Happy holidays to you too, Caitie.
Aurora
I believe quality time is much more important than quantity time, and it sounds like you are giving them good quality time! The time you spend with other children is so valuable too!
Sarah
I hope so. Thanks, Aurora. ๐
lwallin
Unfortunately, not all of these things are free in Chicago any more. I totally agree with your idea of doing things together for the holiday, though.
Sarah
It does take a little research to discover free activities in your area. Hope you can find them, Iwallin!
jofreitag
Your gift of time to do activities together and visit places of interest sounds like like a wonderful way to give a lot of fun during the holidays! Thank you for a great post!
Sarah
Thanks Jo! I like what another blogger said – creating memories is more lasting.
cdfox1
Your children are adorable. I think taking photos with family and spending time together are key. Those photos will serve you in good stead in years to come when your children are older and eager to know what they did as little ones and where they went. They’re the proof in the pudding so to speak that you’re an active, invested mother. Well done!
Sarah
Thank you for your kind words! ๐